DON’T LOOSE IT...

Life is the relationship of one matter form with the other. All sciences are trying to establish the relationship between time and space with life and achievements. Matter becomes the bridge highway and the soul becomes a car. Think for a while if you are driving the car of life or the car is driving you.

If you are driving the car of soul on the highway of life think where you can reach, what destinations you can achieve and what name you can make and what places you can go but in case the car is driving you, think for a while, where will you reach? Let me tell you: in the pit. Because where there is slope the movement will take place and the slopes ultimately reach to the bottom of the pit.

Relations are not the exams to get pass or fail and neither is it a competition to win or loose. Relations in my perception are a feeling in which you care for someone or something more than you. It’s like telling that they are more important and the urgent can wait for the important so do good generally to everyone without any expectation and as an old proverb says “Fragrance always stays in the hands of those who deliver it”.

So if you follow the rules of good relationship you will relate with yourself in the best way possible. It is that we don’t relate with others so we feel problems in relating with ourselves as well and when we lose the relation with the self only the matter remains. Happiness comes in the combination, success is a compound element.

We have to find the golden mean of relationship. We should try to get their standings and their destinations and we must go with our priorities balancing with their goals. If we get where we wanted, we become successful and if we suggest them how they can reach then they become successful.

Successful and happy people become the blend of relation and that becomes godly. God lives in small things and relation is one important home where god dwells. God resides in love, in knowledge, in passions and in emotions.

We the common people want so many things. Our desires go high in the sky and we even have no firm standing on the ground. I doubt whether we should reach there or repent later and life has no facility of cuts and retakes.

So let us learn relationship and maintain it. The most important relation is with the self, if we lose that we lose the value of life and then only the price remains: we should care and share ourselves, then we should try to relate better with others, without expectation or jealousy, without profit motif or greed without any ego or attachment. Great Buddha said “Attachment is a folly and detachment is a blunder”. Just relate better. Good Luck